RACE AND TRUTH.
George Floyd's death was quite possibly the tipping point of America’s pent up
rage. As I watch the unrest in the streets, I can’t help but acknowledge it has
moved into my being. I speak to quell the holy shout growing in my soul, ENOUGH!!!
How uncomfortable are you willing to be for the sake of truth? Bold truth
spoken in love is the only real change agent, the only real freedom fighter.
Despite the chaos in the streets, love is still the greatest power known to
man. We cannot fight with anything less. We will never move forward on lies and
political correctness. Many white Americans are afraid to speak on race to the
point of cowardice, but many black Americans speak on the pain and anger of racial issues to the point of irrationality. I'm not afraid, but I am aware that this could
cost me something. I'll risk it.
I would rather not have to says these things. I prefer you hear them from
leaders who voice hope, and who help us move toward healing. The leaders I've
seen, seem lost. Some of them are angry and hurt to the point of discrimination
and hatred themselves. They are stirring up and perpetuating the prejudice they claim they want to fix. Many are buying into lies and notions that leads
to more death and destruction. They are transfixed by pain, paralyzed or driven by
emotion. They speak of change from a place of fear. Fear never gives life. It
only destroys it.
Most alarming of all is
truth is being pushed out of the conversation purposely, or it is entirely
ignored. With every lie that is told, I grow more desperate to hear an honest
conversation, one which will lead to constructive change. I write this in an
attempt to begin one. It will please neither the white community, nor the black
community with whom I share pigment and racial experiences. I don't speak for
all black people. Nor will I pick a team. Truth is disrespected by both sides
of the issue. I will attempt to address each lie sincerely. This will be raw,
and maybe cringeworthy at times. I do this not to shock you, but to be honest.
My hope is that those who have ears to hear will hear, and that God will be
exalted, and pleased that I tried.
THE LIE OF RACE AND RACISM
Somewhere along the way we
accepted the lie of race, and by extension racism. Once we did, we began
fighting the wrong battle. This was the only logical outcome, because it is the nature of a lie to redirect. Our eyes,
hands, ears, conscience and spirit all testified that people by nature are of
the same race; human. Yet, we chose to focus on, and define each other by
variations in features. We made the lesser thing to define the greater thing. This sort of evaluation is consistent with man’s judgment. He regards what is seen outwardly, and
devalues the divine. Once we did this, we were doomed to fight a battle which cannot be won, because "racism" is not the core issue. Evil is.
Sometimes that evil is expressed as hatred for an entire group or class. Sadly,
in the hearts of those who make room, hatred/evil will never localize. It expands. Racism is in a nutshell the expansion of evil in a heart to affect more people. Its root is pride, but for the sake of this post, I’ll call it “racism” and
hatred and use those words interchangeably.
Some time ago I watched a
teacher name Jane Elliot conduct what she called the “Brown- eyed Blue-eyed
Experiment.” It was intended to show whites what prejudice is like by
segregating them for a short time, and treating them differently based on eye
color. The experiment taught many what it felt like to be discriminated
against. Some with the preferred eye color quickly bought in to their superior
roles, proving that should we eradicate discrimination based on skin color, it
would easily reemerge on the basis of something else. In this case it was eye
color, but it could be hair color, height, weight, finances, whatever. This
reveals that true “racism” is a heart issue. Wherever we managed to eliminate
this problem within our society, unless we correct the heart, which is the root
of it, discrimination will simply take another form. It’s like firing a thief
from your business, but electing him to your government. His character hasn’t
changed, only the schemes he uses, and the location from which he robs you.
Interestingly, Mrs. Elliot borrowed the
eye experiment from Hitler. Only for the Nazis, it wasn't an experiment. It was a
test, a measure used to qualify levels of whiteness among Jews. Millions were
killed based on it. The difference between life and death hinged on lighter
tints and shades in eye color among the same group of people. No logic needed.
Evil is resilient. It will find a reason to carry out its purpose. Ultimately,
only God can destroy it. Obedience to His wisdom is key.
Unfortunately, many in the
church have walked in disobedience to God regarding how we love others. As a
result, we suffer from some of the same issues in the church that confronts
non-believers. If Sunday morning services are any indication, society is ahead
of us where integration is concerned. This is not a reflection on the wisdom of
God, but rather a reflection on our neglect and rejection of it. So many
Christians want to join the fight against racism. It’s noble, but we have to
connect to the truth first; some of us are a part of the problem. We must ask
God to reveal sin, and do as He says, remove “the log” out of our eyes first.
Then we will be able to help others.
Now "help" should not imply
harmony. As we comfort those broken by hatred, the church cannot allow their emotions
and pain to lead us away from, and blind us to the real problem, evil. The
church must be careful that in our zeal to show compassion, we don’t sacrifice
the cure, the truth, the purpose and power of the cross. It is an opportunity
to confess God, and speak of His transforming power in us. We, as all men are
corrupt in nature. The evil we fight is in us all. Perhaps it’s a fulfillment
in the things we own, the way we look, the position we hold, who we know
etc. Truth is man's heart is fixated on having an edge. We all have this kind of pride. It is why Jesus came. When we single out racism as the demon of all
sins, deserving a special kind of venom, we deny the truth and allow the root
cause of it to live. That is, that all men want to be God in some way. He has
an internal desire to feel superior to someone. This is Eden 101. There, we looked at God Himself,
the creator and sustainer, in the middle of His property, and pretty much said,
“I think I’d rather be god over myself. I can do this better than you.” How
then are we expected to elevate another human being to our level, if we are trying
to elevate ourselves to the level of God? Truth is, man has no genuine interest in real
equality. It is at conflict with our desire to reign. It is therefore contrary
to our nature to look at another man and say, “I will make him equal to me.”
It's time to stop romanticizing
the lie that we can “fix racism” without God. He is the only good in humanity,
and only His way works. His death made man's restoration possible. It puts an
end to what separates man from God and from each other: Sin. Evil. God alone gives
us the love we need for each other. There is not a social program on the earth
that could do this. His plan is perfect. We are unable to improve upon it; Therefore,
God does not prosper a way that is not His. So, until we connect with holiness,
and view life in His light, we will continue to hate each other. We will do so
even in the name of religion, because it is not a system that values life, it
is a person. Those who follow God will love their neighbor regardless of color.
Those who do not love, do not know God.
Now discrimination unlike
"racism" isn’t entirely a negative thing. We do it in many situations. Sometimes we do it to keep ourselves safe. For example: I will not walk down the dark alley with the mysterious
van. I will not give my bank account information to the “prince of Ghana" who wants
to bless me with millions. In many areas we accept that discrimination is
natural. You do not love my child like you love yours. Nor do I expect you to.
And who can convince you that your baby isn’t the best baby ever born? Let's
not complicate the issue by confusing and demonizing the meaning of the word. It can mean the
unjust treatment of a certain group, or just drawing a distinction. One is
needed to make wise decisions, the other is never needed. If I decide not to go
to a particular Mexican restaurant because it has a poor sanitation rating,
that’s smart. If I decide that all Mexican restaurants are unclean, that’s imbecilic. Any area where we have made a sweeping generalization,
especially on a flimsy or mystery motive, is a red flag.
Whether we are the perpetrator
or victim, believers dealing with "racism" or any sin already know
what to do. We don’t need a new plan. The God given one works. Go to your brother,
and try to solve your difference. Communicate with him. That’s biblical. That
is how we handle hostility and grudges. We reach out to the people holding the
grudge, and we listen to their heart. We allow them the opportunity to hear
ours, and we respond based on the truth, not on how they feel. If your brother
feels sad because his wife cheated on Him, you weep with him, but you do not
let the pain he is experiencing cause you to partner with him if he decides to
go and murder her lover. One reaction holds the power of life, the other
produces more hate and division, so that the end result of the original wrong, is
surpassed by the foolishness that follows.
Unfortunately, this is what
I see some in the church now doing. We seem to want to compensate for past
attitudes and failures by replacing it with an attitude of acceptance of
everything. Due to where it leads, I find this scarier than "racism."
It means we are willing to sacrifice truth for what we feel. Our feelings are
now our gods. Think of the implications of that? Currently, those who do not
conform to the "group feeling" on a matter are being corrected, reeducated,
silenced or destroyed. Thus far the harm to those individuals have only been
financial, but evil is unquenchable. It will demand more. If we don’t address
this now, those who are most powerful will control whose “feelings" are
most worthy to be honored, and maybe even permanently silenced.
Right now, it looks like it
is mostly the feelings of blacks that matter. I definitely want black people to
have a voice. I have a personal interest in that, but no one voice should control
a free society. Especially when it mimics a hostile takeover, and establishes
fear as its might. These dynamics will shift to other groups. Each with a more
radical mission than the last. For these reasons we, the church must govern ourselves based
on righteous principles. In our quest for unity let us throw off everything
that hinders and entangles our walk-in truth, and pursue the hearts of all men
with the good news from God. The best way to fight "racism" is to
live in complete obedience to the wisdom of God. If we lay down our cross to pick
up the banner of anything or anyone other than Christ, we join the defeated,
and do a disservice to the power of God. Fight for the hearts of men, and the
kingdom of God. It is not a one issue battle. It is not a fight to cure a
symptom. It is a war against the cause, the disease of evil that penetrates our
very nature. The only cure is Christ.
SYSTEMIC RACISM
I do think racism is
systemic, but not exactly in the way some want me to. All evil is systemic. It
is built into the system, the flesh of men. It becomes institutional because
men lead institutions. Many in the black community believe white power, over a
system designed by whites, and for whites is the main opposition to black progress,
and success. It is a true lie.
How long are we to pretend
systemic racism is only a matter of white oppression, and give black leaders a
pass? I recently watched Oprah hold a forum among black Americans. It was on
systemic racism for the purpose of finding a path forward. She included those who shared congruent views, but excluded
those who did not. She and others routinely ostracize the voices of black
libertarians, independents, and conservatives. This exclusion screams
discrimination. It is at the very least, discrimination of thought, and as a
result help. Selecting only those with whom you agree, is actually fixing the
conversation to favor your outcome. She was doing the very thing she was
hosting a forum to remedy. Black leaders in America, and others have created a
system whereby they discriminate against conservative voices entirely. They
deny them every opportunity to advance or have input in the black community.
It's a blatant double standard. It's a minor example, but please acknowledge
that prejudices exist among people of the same group.
Should we only focus on
fixing "racism” coming from whites? Do we ignore it among ourselves? No.
We should start with us. We have been fighting "racism" for years. I
believe our unity is paramount to the success of that. It may even be the pivot
on which the system changes. At the very least addressing all the problems we
face, will make us stronger. It also preempts infighting. If we can change the
"man in the mirror" we can surely change the world.
It is undeniable that
people of the same groups hurt each other. In many cases, it is a more
effective weapon than any outside force. I remember the Rwandan genocide. The
horror of the Hutus and Tutsis, and the caste system in India, teaches me
compassion nor protection is assured on the grounds of color alone. Even my
personal history highlights this. I was teased because I’m a darker shade on
the black spectrum. I'm not attempting to equate name-calling to systemic
racism. I'm simply acknowledging our equal opportunity to create such a system among ourselves.
Truth comes before change. The fact that I’ve been called “nigger” by whites
does not outweigh being called “tar baby” by blacks. Both were meant to demean. Both are attitudes of the heart that lead to the suppression of others.
Let’s be honest before the
Lord who already knows our hearts, we discriminate within the black community.
Be it skin color, or even hair type, it's there. Judge rightly. Whether perfect
equity or superiority in society, neither secures equality among blacks. Color
aside, I don’t want to be considered less than any man. That's tantamount to
trading a master for a master. I'd rather be free. This conversation is a lot
deeper than we are willing to go. Our community needs healing from the inside
too. Don’t be mad because I told the truth. Be humbled before the Lord by it.
God will not bless hypocrisy among us. Nor will we ever be made whole by
telling half the truth. Honor God and put the Kingdom over culture, and
country. Be prepared to surrender your “black card” for your believer card.
If we are going to talk
about systemic racism, we have to deal with it on both sides, blacks and
whites. I see systemic racism among blacks, in that we discriminate against
other blacks. Some of those who are wealthy, have built on the backs of the
poor in their own community. The most discriminated group in America is black
conservatives. Blacks have joined with whites to bully them into silence.
That’s because evil will partner with evil, regardless of color. These black people
are ignored, and in most cases, they are not considered "black
enough." They are “Uncle Toms.” Am I to pretend I don’t see that, and that
that discrimination is different? How? I argue that it is worse, because the
perpetrators know what it feels like to be silenced. They claim to know what it
is like to be denied the opportunity to advance, and yet they do it to others.
I would also have to call
out the systemic issue of abortion. How are we going to talk about systemic
racism and not mention that? Margret Sanger was a pioneer in the eugenics
movement. She advocated forced sterilization. Neither she, nor founder Alan
Frank Guttmacher, were vague about the goal of Planned Parenthood. It was
“population control.” Their words. I realize that this message has been
scrubbed. If you go to sites like Wikipedia these people have been deified.
They are now leaders in the field of "reproductive rights." They were
pioneers in “family planning.” Come on! They intentionally instituted policies
that have led to the slaughter of millions of black Americans. If it’s family
planning why is most of the “planning” happening in black communities? Why is
most of these “family planning” clinics setup in black neighborhoods? Why are
we continuing to sacrifice our babies in these clinics because someone told us
we need to adopt their plan? Murder is not a plan. That is genocide. It was
calculated. It was introduced in the black community as hope, for struggling
moms, as an alternative for low income people, by people who were white, and
boldly racist.
There is no more excuse for
our ignorance. We would look into this if we were honest. Stop letting politics
rewrite history, pervert your integrity, and tell us how to think. Go read
Margaret Sanger and the Negro project. Read reports like Birth control and the
Negro. Even though there is a push to recharacterize her and recast her image,
and to make the motives of people like her less known, you can find it if you
want too. Is it worth a few hours of your time to investigate, and see that
murder was planned and determined for us as people a long, long time ago? That
we were considered “unfit, the lowest elements of society, the great problem of
the south, something to be remove for racial betterment.” At the time Sanger
advise that this project should not be carried out by medical white men. “Why?
Perhaps for the same reason she said,
"We do not want word
to go out that we want to exterminate the Negro population and the minister is
the man who can straighten out that idea if it ever occurs to any of their more
rebellious members." Margret Sanger.
These are the very words of
the pioneer in the “birth control movement.” If we truly care about systemic
racism in the black community, we would confront this. But we don’t want to
know. It would inconvenience us. We would have to change, so we close our ears
and disparage those who dare to speak the truth. It truly makes me angry
because we want others to hear our cries for help but we ignore the very
children in our womb. It is our privilege to take their lives. It is our
privilege to ignore their murders because it is what is best for us. That
sounds a lot like the very thing we are accusing whites of when we say systemic
racism and white privilege.
I find it hard to unite
with many people of my color in this area. I cannot reconcile the hypocrisy
here. If racism is systemic, the battle to end abortion is ground zero in the
fight. We are killing the hope in our community. Abortion is contract killings
made legal, and advanced for the express purpose of taking out as many black
lives as possible. I cannot get behind any movement that will not acknowledge
it, much less fight against it. Instead, many of us support it. It is dishonest
to advocate for our rights, while denying the rights of others, and then try to shut down
those who point that out. I can never partner with someone who only wants me to
say what they want, especially when it concerns denying the truth. So, pardon
me if I’m not crying over the life that you do have. My heart is broken for the
lives many of our children didn’t get to have. Instead I ask that you join in
the fight against systemic racism for them.
Abortion is not the only
“help” that has been less than helpful. Many Welfare programs offer us
resources in exchange for our hopes and dreams. To accept welfare programs
indefinitely, is to agree to live according to the state’s idea of your value.
I’m not bashing aid. I’m bashing the system of living of aid as income. It is
not a life plan. We should never grow comfortable or conditioned to easy money
given by authority. We certainly shouldn’t trust it. Nor should we expect to
advance in this way.
Wherever you are given
something you have to pay for it in some form. We must ask ourselves why are
there incentives to get on these programs, but not to get off? What has the
cost of these things been? Much like abortion, they look like the answer, like
hope, like light, but it is not real light. It is a cozy a trap. It keeps you
living up to the government potential, and under yours, or God’s potential for
you. Much like abortion has led to stagnation in our community, elimination of
promise, and inequality in wealth, these programs also lead to stagnation in
our success, redistribution of promise and inequality in wealth. At best they
were designed to help for a short time, at worst they were intended to disable.
I have come to believe the latter. They pacify to complacency, and if you want
to oppress a man never give him a reason to fight. He might actually win.
Systemic racism? Yes, but
not in the way it is being presented. We are not being robbed of opportunity in
the zillions because whites are currently subjugating us. We made that
concession decades ago. We are currently being robbed of growth, power and
success because we have agreed and supported the calculated destruction, lies and
desire of those who see us as too ignorant to know better. We have furthered
them, and destroy any who dare speak against them. It is systemic racism by
agreement, systemic racism through cultural consent. That is the bad news and the
good news. We can change all of this if we truly examine all the ills in our
community, unite and think for ourselves. We don’t need anyone’s permission to
heal us. We can do this, but as long as we promote and support politicians who
tell us what it means to be black, count on systemic racism being around for a
while. This is a fight for all Americans, but black Americans must lead it.
BETWEEN US
I’m attempting to address
the whole truth or at least as much of it as I can. Now, I don’t for one minute
believe that there aren’t discriminatory practices carried out specifically
against the black community. I’m not giving anyone a pass for doing so. Most
blacks, myself included, are treated with a presumption of innate ignorance. It
leads to things like low expectations regarding intellect. From it proceeds a
host of discriminatory questions, insinuations, and false offers of aid. It
shows up in strangers telling you what you can and cannot achieve or afford,
explaining obvious things in painfully simplified details, attempting
to speak for you as though you need a translator. I’ve been given old food,
offered unacceptable living conditions, and damaged materials, simply because I
wasn’t expected to know what quality is. It is the same spirit I see in the
handouts from the government. Conveniently, this presumption of innate
ignorance also leads to a dismissal of our valid concerns regarding prejudice.
We are considered too slow and biased a source. One which cannot be trusted to recognize
racial problems, much less point them out.
Additionally, we are
treated with an attitude of suspicion. We are not afforded the benefit of the
doubt as often. This leads to incidents of extra vigilance, surveillance and
aggressive “justice.” It’s the cause of questions like, did you pay for that?”
It’s the reason I’ve been followed in stores, and in my neighborhood. It’s the
reason I’m stopped leaving stores while the white friends I’m with, are not.
I do not believe Derek
Chauvin woke up that morning with “kill a black man” on his to do list. But
it's the "little foxes" that often cause the big damage. Some are
still debating the cause of Floyds death. Was it the knee or something else?
Seriously? Discard the fact that the officer actually appeared to be taking pleasure in
what he was doing, and almost taunting the crowd with it, had he gotten off of
that man sooner, after he stopped resisting, perhaps he could have received
help sooner. At the very least, it would make this situation less messy. Maybe there is another camera angle, but I saw no resistance, nor
did the onlookers filming, and pleading with him to get off Floyd. It’s
reckless to apply added force where it is not needed. To deny medical care
while you do so, is cruel. Whether it was racial or not, it was not right. To
behave so carelessly while in a position of power is abuse. But it's familiar. Arrogance with a certain casual disregard. It hurts. Blacks have seen this
abuse so many times and in so many ways.
This is what the outrage in
the streets is about. Blacks know that for every George Floyd who dies on the
streets, there are many more who don’t die. They are stopped, and
delayed for little are no reason then dismissed to repeat the cycle again. It is frustrating to be pulled over, and hear
an officer fumble for a reason why. In those instances, you are happy to go
home, but fully aware that the "powers that be" seem to exercise a
little “more power” over you. For me, and for many blacks the question isn't is
racism real. We know it is. There is no debate among us. The hatred we have
experienced is as real as apple pie, and the Fourth of July. The question is: how
do we respond to it? What's the solution? Before we can come together and fix
it, we have to acknowledge it. Some still don’t see it.
It’s been my experience
that white people seem to think more of hooded robes, and racial slurs when
defining racism. Many of the things which affect black people outside of that
escapes them. They don’t always recognize it, because they are not dealing with
the same things. That’s fair. On some levels we are living in two Americas in
terms of how we are viewed. I compare it to an argument between an old married
couple fighting over the same topic all of their relationship. They have the same
fight repeatedly, and every time they will disagree. Neither side changes their
mind. They just leave with the same unresolved issues. They tolerate each other
for a while, but the problem is just beneath the surface. It pops up every few
months or so.
At this point, race in
America is a lot like that couple. Neither party is completely wrong. They just
have different viewpoints. In many ways I see blacks as the offended party
saying, “look at what you did, and continue to do to me.” Meanwhile whites are
like, “you are still here, it’s not that bad. Get over it so we can move on.”
It’s very much like, a nagging wife, and an obstinate husband, only more
dangerous. At least the couple’s problem only involves two people, who will both
die, and take their fight with them. As a society the conversation involves
everyone. It is passed from generation to generation. It’s been going on too
long, and neither party signed up for it, or likes their role in it. The only
thing we can agree on is that we are all tired.
Believe it or not racism is
not the only thing that black people want to talk about, but we're just
experiencing it more frequently than white Americans understand. It’s
dehumanizing. Some of us are holding things back. We don’t share much of it. It
is a difficult thing to navigate what to tell. I’d rather walk through it with
my God, than tell a friend who downplays it or dismisses me. I find that more
painful. It's easier to keep the most heartbreaking things to ourselves. It's
also hard to let the people who are hurting you know that what they are doing
is effective. Why strengthen the arm of one who would use it to torment you?
Right or wrong that’s the reasoning. So, on the one hand blacks nag because
they want you to get involve, but many keep a barrier around their hearts,
because if they really shared, they risk more hurt in the form of dismissal.
I’ve heard some ask, “Why
can’t we focus on what's right and not what's wrong?” That's a fair thought,
but what's wrong still happens pretty often. And then when you look over and
see one group of people not as affected or even concern by some of what’s
wrong, it gets a bit hard to swallow. Especially, when you are struggling
regularly with things that others deny exist.
Try to understand. I’ve heard many white people say, "Stop looking at the
past, while flashing a rebel flag. Excuse me, but is that not a flag from the
past? Or is that the new flag of 2020?
Others, have been quick to
say that slavery ended centuries ago (they mostly get the date wrong) but they
ignore the fact that civil rights is a more recent thing. We are still living
among people who fought for it, black and white, and all were affected by it.
I've met so many whites who say “racism is wrong. I'm not that way, but my…”
Then they proceed to out the family members who are. These same people then
advise that “we (black people) need to move past it.” I'm always astonished
that they don't see the obvious conflict between saying, “black
people need to get over it,” and the existence of their racist relatives. If
your uncle’s family are racists, are they also hermits? Because unless they are
hermits, they are interacting with the public, with me, my family and other
black families. They are the ones following me around stores, clutching their
bags like life support, serving the person of their color preference when I was
clearly first, refusing or provide assistance etc. Some are hiring, and firing. Others are making arrests.
Now, you'd like to think
that they don't act that way in public, but it does seep out, and it expresses
itself in many ways. If you are going to give advice to the black community
about moving on, then make sure you are equally advising all racist
acquaintances to do so as well. I’m not telling you not to love your family,
but you are also called to love the family of God. If you will stand for the
truth across the board, it will bring healing to all around you. You don’t have
to have all the right words, but until our identity in God supersedes our
identity in the world, we will never have reconciliation.
I think the anger over the
continued dismissal, denial, and complacency, from the white community has
pushed some black people to their breaking point. Even Christians are
justifying and softening their stance on sin in desperation to express their
rage. They are saying things like, “I don’t agree with the violence in the
protests, but I understand it.” They then go on to express the “understanding
of the violence” with greater passion than the condemnation of it. What is
that? Let’s not make sin relative for the sake of getting even, and
"social justice." People are being murdered over televisions. Are we
so desperate for action, we’ll accept anything? That feels more like revenge.
I’ve also heard some in the
church say looting, rioting, and violence is acceptable because black people
have tried peaceful protest, like kneeling for the national anthem, and no one
cared. They received more criticism and venom over being unpatriotic than the
cause of their kneeling. Defenders of violence rationalize that peaceful
attempts are dismissed, and blacks continue to be considered violent thugs
despite their attempts to draw attention to inequality. They reason that it’s
time to act like the hoodlums we are presumed to be, if that’s what gets us
equality. To hear a believer, express this is astounding. Do whites get this
privilege? Are you also willing to say white people can act like racists
because they are exhausted from being constantly accused of it? Do all the
whites who have fought against hatred, but are still being labelled hopelessly
racist, do they get to apply this rationale too? Following the logic that
violent protesters are just acting the way that they are assumed to be, then
white people should be able to act racist as they are assumed to be. This is
madness.
Another thought that has
been expressed was that “Martin Luther King was a good man, but Malcolm X had
the better idea.” And to that I say, for every Malcolm X there is a David
Duke?” Hate breeds hate. Is that what we want?
GOT YA!
For many the video of
George Floyd has been the “got ya” video of our failure on racism, that
includes in the body of Christ. Many people can now see what blacks have been
saying and they are ashamed. Many blacks now feel they have the proof of what
was known and rejected all along, and their anger, pain, sadness and fear over
it is real. White people if you have been dismissive of what is going on with
regard to your fellow Americans, repent and commit your way to the Lord. He
will guide you to love others, and show you how to carry your brother's burden
and not his bitterness or live within the boundaries he puts on you.
Black American, despite the
pain soften your heart to hope. There is no amount of pain that allows you to
impose, restrict or silence the voices of others. You cannot say you want
racial reconciliation but allow only one race to speak. That’s superiority. We
know what that feels like. Say what you need to say, but allow the other side
to have some thoughts and ideas. Will they say some things that infuriate you?
Probably. Are they going to understand it all? Probably not. We need patience
to live with each other. That is why it is a gift of the Spirit. It came from
Heaven. God has it with us, and we need it to interact with each other. There
is no such thing as being too patient here.
We must fight our hearts to
forgive the hardest things. It wants to hold on to every wrong, and make sure
it is accounted for. It is accounted for by our savior who died for it. Let us
also remember, God has said "vengeance is mine. I will repay." Why do
we lay aside the counsel of God because we hurt? Is our God no longer just?
Will evil always win? Do we not trust His justice, or do we think He will
somehow be complicit? Rise up people of God choose Him and follow his ways. We
will not solve "social injustice" through legislation or anything
that the world is proposing. You cannot legislate evil and hate out of the
heart of man. I wish that no one were racist, but if you can figure out how to
legislate hatred out of man and love into him, you would have effectively
solved the greatest problem of all time, rendering every faith and god
unnecessary. If the atheist wants to abolish faith they should work on that
problem, because the quest of faith really is the desire for love and
significance.
If we did manage such a
fete, it wouldn’t last long, because the laws come from the purity of the heart
of the one who wrote them. Without absolute goodness, the law of the one giving
it is always vulnerable. What I’m saying is if man managed to create a perfect
code of laws, then it is only as strong as his character. And should he change
his heart, he will also change his word. The perfect system would then be at
the mercy of whoever is in charge. All men know and live this. How many times
do we intend to do something, and fail? Whether it is New Year’s resolutions or
life goals, we write them down and often don’t keep them. The law can only
benefit us if we keep it. Those who have a heart and a mind rebellious to the
law of God and the law of man will always break it.
WHITE PRIVILEGE
Racism is so subtle. It is
a shape shifter. It can be the obvious insult like, “porch monkey” or “ape,” or
come in the form of a “compliment” like “you’re pretty for a black girl.” But
sometimes it happens even when nothing is said. It is attitude, or reluctance
to serve, and eagerness to dismiss. I will admit that sometimes it’s hard
explaining these things to others. It further complicates conversations on the
topic. Many are angry that whites are even afforded the luxury of ignorance
here, and that they are not navigating these things with regularity. Terms like
“white privilege” starts getting thrown around. White privilege is used to
describe the discrepancy between how hard a black and white person have to work
to achieve the same goal. It is the belief that an advantage is historically,
disproportionally and automatically assigned to the ones who lead this society
since its founding. I struggle with this. I believe there is a kernel of truth here.
Slavery definitely wasn’t for the benefit of the slaves, but how long that
advantage lasted, and is it still in a handicap for blacks today is more the
question.
I tend to disagree with the
extent of its affect today. It’s not that racism has gone away, but at what
point do we say it is over? Do we seriously think we will ever have 100%
compliance against black discrimination? I don’t think we can. If we could, why
not reform murder, and molestation out of society? We recognize the
impossibility based on human nature. We don’t attempt to suggest eliminating
other sins in this way. I feel we are being dishonest. The only way hate ends,
is if we end all humanity. Why are we setting a higher and more impossible
standard here than with all other sins? It is in its own special class, so it
deserves a special treatment. Treating this sin like the unpardonable one,
gives us an excuse to hold on to bitterness and to keep fighting the same
problem forever. We will create more laws, and more programs and more failures
as a result, because it will merely shift the privilege from one group to
another. With everything I receive because I’m black someone will be robbed
because they are not. I do not want to gain in this way. Many will argue it’s
about leveling the playing field. I don’t believe that. If that were true how
come we are only advocating it for one group of people? Has no one else in
America been wronged? I seem to remember this land belonging to another group
of people before whites and blacks got here. They should be at the head of the
table of any discussion regarding wealth redistribution. In fact, they should
decide who gets what. To leave them out is disrespectful, and it feels a little
more like targeting, an excuse to exploit a situation that can never be repaid.
The real issue is
hypocrisy. Which of you, black or white would be willing to give up your
birthright, and switched with somebody from Haiti, Sudan, Somalia? I mean no
disrespect, but who is willing to trade their birthright for someone in India
to come here and live as you are, while you go there and live as they would be?
Better yet, don't just give up your birthright, but go only with the clothes on
your back to Haiti, Uganda, Ethiopia and work your way from the ground up. Then
come back and tell me if there's no such thing as American privilege. You see,
if we are going to talk about white privilege in America, then we have to
discuss American privilege in the world. That puts us all in a very vulnerable
position. Americans collectively would have to give up their stuff for the
inequity in the rest of the world whose people also are exploited.
Let's not be hypocrites
here. Chinese sweat shops are real. African poverty is real. Americans have been privileged enough to turn a blind eye and benefit from both; yet what are we doing on an individual level
to address those things? As painful as it is, we don’t get to prioritize our
injustices above those of others. America’s wealth is due to many factors.
Should those who rightly or wrongly attribute it to the exploitation of certain
nations decide to equalize privilege, and gather on our shores to collect, few
will make a distinction between a white and a black American.
The denial is baffling.
Many black and white American kids are wearing name brand clothing, three
hundred-dollar sneakers, while filming their “white privilege” protests on thousand-dollar
phones! It completely escapes them how wealthy they are here. Meanwhile, there
are parts of the world where people are literally eating dirt. How could they
not know the privilege it is to be born in this country? The system has failed
to educate them. There is a large percentage of the world that would do
anything to be poor in America. Personally, I want to scream "youth privilege!" When I
was a kid, we had one tv. It was a luxury. I shared a room with four siblings,
and got my first car as an adult. Nowadays these are expected items of most
American kids, and still they demand more. They seem completely disconnected
from the reality of the hard work connected to providing these things. American youth
privilege is a thing.
Entitlement is their real
problem. They don't seem to understand that not everyone is supposed to be wealthy. Not everyone is going to be
content. Just because the people three streets over have nice cars, doesn’t
mean I should have them to. I’m not entitled to anything I didn’t work for.
That is an essential part of free societies. The moment we start believing we
are entitled to what others have, we will start to demand it and take things
from them. That’s not freedom. That’s oppression. It makes me only as free to
do and have as much as you deem acceptable. This is not America. The most
attractive thing about this country is that it is a land of endless
possibilities, and promise.
If we are going to eliminate all unfair privileges then in addition to American
privilege, and youth privilege, there is an even larger elephant in the room,
male privilege. When do we make males account for their cruelty against females? We can fill volumes on this one, and still never do it much justice.
This is why we need to practice forgiveness. Radical forgiveness. Without it,
we are wandering hopeless. Borrowed or inherited pain, chains us to the past,
and wrecks our future. It continues to add interest and grow the debt we
perceived we are owed. The larger it grows the harder it becomes to let
go. Whether anger over slavery, or guilt from it, this is true for whites
and blacks. We must all learn to free ourselves through seeking forgiveness. This is the greatest
privilege of all.
Privilege isn't a bad
thing. As a parent I to try provide the privilege of college and many other
things for my kids. Their education will cost us. We
understand privilege is connected to work ethic. Many black Americans feel we
have to work a bit harder. We have to be twice as good, at the same job.
We have to have the right attitude, or bite our tongues to avoid the
"angry black..." label. This pressure is real. There are many people waiting
for us to mess up to prove what they suspect, we are worthless, less than, lazy. In many work situations it's an unspoken fight to prove you are equal to
or worthy. I stopped fighting this battle a long time ago. I don't need to
vindicate the color of my earthly heritage, but to reveal the character of my
Heavenly Father. It has allowed me to make peace with this pressure.
To be fair I've heard of
many instances where the opposite is also true, black Americans performing
horribly on the jobs, but white employers afraid to fire due to Affirmative
Action. Yes, that's wrong too. Obviously, in those situations the person/s feel
none of the pressures I previously described. And while I do understand why we
needed such programs; I hate that we still have to have them. I don't think anyone
should be stuck with a lazy employee, when they could have a better one. I
fully recognize that Affirmative Action is riddled with problems. It is the
very definition of being "judged by the color of our skin, and not the
content of our character." What's the answer to this? Can America be
trusted to judge fairly if AA were removed? I hope so, but I truly don't know.
What I do know is decades after Dr. Martin Luther King's speech, "The
Dream" remains unfulfilled. We are still judged by the color of our skin,
and others are moved to the back of the line, for the good this reverse
"Jim Crowish" law accomplishes. Despite its original purpose, it is privilege. Many black people will disagree with me on this, but can't help but see that.
Surprisingly, there is one
potential point of agreement. If white privilege exists, is widespread and
debilitating, then it needs to be solved. The question becomes who can be
trusted to solve it? Whites are apparently not solving it fast enough, nor
would they have any interest, or incentive to. Blacks can’t be an unbiased
source. So, if we all accept that it exists, who solves the problem of white
privilege in America?
AMERICAN
Perhaps this is where the
real conversation on race in America should begin. It seems many black
Americans still consider themselves something other than that. They are still
searching for a home, a real identity. Many have no stake in this country
because they have separated themselves from it. Even the name African-American
denotes some special class of American citizenship. You are American. Many
fought and died for your right to be one. They didn’t fight for you to be
African American. Just one look at us and the fact that we are of African
descent is obvious. No one will confuse us with being European Americans. It’s
like a desperate grasp for an identity we lost. That’s probably the most tragic
part of slavery, the loss of a real identity. We will never get that back in
the way that it was intended.
Instead, please accept that
a group of courageous Americans, black, and white fought for our stake to make
this country work for us, and for us to be included in what they were building,
to make us owners, Americans. That is what you are, and no amount of calling
ourselves African American will change that. The soles of your feet have never touched the shores of Africa, nor has the soles of your grandparent’s feet. You
own nothing there, and unless you are investing there, you have little claim.
It's been a long time since you've been truly connected to Africa. Those who
built the American Nation share in the hard work and labor, you should share in
the rewards as American. They wanted this freedom for you. It is your
inheritance.
Paradoxically the name
African-American seems both foolish and fitting. It’s foolish in that Africa is
an entire continent, not a country. The name meant to clarify identity further
confuses it. My immediate question tends to confuse some. "What part of
Africa are you from?" I have friends who were born and raised in various
countries in Africa. Some of them are white. Their parents were missionaries in
Cameroon, Tanzania, Nigeria and Kenya. They know well the nations, regions and
cities they were born in. They know the culture and customs. They speak the respective
language of their African countries. They knew nothing of America except that
they were white and of American parents. Africa was, is and will always be
home. Yet, they who have such deep ties to the countries and continent of Africa are not really allowed to
call themselves African American in America, because it is a color description, not a
true cultural identity. “African Americans,” would you be offended if my white
friends call themselves African American? Are American blacks more
"African-American" than whites born and raised in Africa? It’s a
bizarre reversal, and it feels very discriminatory. How can you be more
African, than someone from Africa?
The term "African
American” is sad, and fitting in that even with the use of the word “African”
which seeks to define, and clarify identity, it adds no clarification at all.
Both Africa and America are continents. The person can be from any country in
Africa and either of two American continents. The two words tell us nothing
about the identity of a person, only that they are of African descent and
belong to one of the Americas. The person with the title is lost in a name too
big to add real meaning. It’s time to just be an American. Perhaps something so
simple will begin to unify us even if only in a slight way.
What’s missed is that the
world sees us as American. That’s it. We are one people whether we like it or
not. In our efforts to identify let's remember, and celebrate things that
unify. We can celebrate The Emancipation Proclamation, and the end of Jim Crow.
And don’t settle for black history being reduced to a month. It is a part of
American history. It’s little things like these that serve to further
segregate. This time we are the ones choosing segregation for ourselves. We don't need black history
month. We need our story told in the United States of America, at all times.
If you are American, you
are part of the greatest nation on earth, the envy of many nations. It is a
privilege and a blessing to be here. Even when we disagree, at least we know
that we can protest, and express it. Let’s not shrink back from ownership in
the land. Join the culture and become a part of it. Stop allowing the pain of
racial experiences to push you to the outside.
If you are not proud of
your country, I respect that at some point you will have to be a part of the
system that changes it, however if the change means destroying or targeting one
group, it is too slippery a slope. We've been down that road before. I’ve never
seen a society prosper by blaming and targeting one group of people as the sole
contributor of all its problems. In fact, that has been the exact excuse for many
great atrocities.
REPARATIONS
Don’t hear me saying, I do
not want equality. I appreciate beyond words the benefits of those who fought
for it. I’m not talking about balancing the scales of justice, I’m talking
about pursuing things that would tip them in another direction, A lot of people
are saying we should impose legislation, and bring a list of demands, and force
others to give us reparations for slavery. That sounds good, but that's not
wise. It seems like justice and light, but it’s not. It’s a lie from Satan and
all good lies come disguised as light or we would never choose them. This one is
no exception and it’s never going to fix the problem. It will tear us further
apart. if we were to get reparations, how do you change the heart of a man who
isn't towards you, especially after you have forced him to hand over his goods?
He will grow to resent you even more and our society will be left to continue
living with an added layer distrust and a deeper divide.
We are being dishonest when
we talk about reparations. I’m not saying that it should not have happened, I’m
just saying that it is too late for that to happen without us creating more
injustice. How does adding injustice to a strained system solve the issues? And
just How far do we go back? Do we go back only to right the wrongs done against
blacks, or do we go back to the Native Americans? Do we go back to Africa to
find the families robbed of their loved ones? Do we demand reparations of
descendants of blacks who also participated in the slave trade and owned
slaves? Do white Americans, in light of black reparations get to demand
reparations if they were exploited too? What about indentured servants? We need
to be honest and vocal.
Black believers must deal
rightly, and not be silent at the potential of gain. Our soul is not for sale.
We are children of the truth. We cannot be like Judas and betray the faith for
financial opportunity. Be objective. How far do we go back to make it
right? How much do we give? Who should give? Should all tax payers give? Are
Immigrants expected to contribute to this? How do we make it fair? Certainly,
the slave owner that had one slave shouldn’t be charged with giving the same
amount as the one who had hundreds? And should reparations be made toward every
black person or every family? How then do we trace the number of people to give
to? Do we charge other nations that were complicit with the US, which allowed
slave ships, supplied and transported people? Should reparations be given to
equal number of black Americans as there were slaves? Who decide who gets it?
This is insanity. Savagery
was committed against blacks. It should not have happened, but we will never
legislate it aright. Those men who owned slaves, who claimed decency, morality,
and God should have led the way with reparations at that time. They could have brought so
much healing to our land. They should have given, or perhaps their children
should have, those who had firsthand knowledge and profited from slavery, but I
suppose if they were willing to be that gracious, we would never have had to
fight a civil war. But to try to hold their descendants responsible over a century
and a half after the emancipation proclamation is unjust. Perhaps you can twist
a few biblical passages to drag out support for your belief, you will not find
overwhelming biblical support for holding the children responsible for their
father’s sins, unless the children in their hate for God continue to practice
the sins of their fathers.
All of that aside, how long
do we continue to allow this legacy of enslavement to define our future? How
long do we keep looking back like Lot’s wife and counting the cost? When will
we be able to accept that we have suffered a loss, and like Paul count it
rubbish for the cause of Christ? Family, this world is not our home. You have
not lost anything that God has not accounted for. Trust Him. He will make this
right. We don’t rely solely on the justice of the world to handle our
grievances. We give it to our God that’s what He is here for. Christians were
never meant to judge and fight like the world does. We were not meant to fight
fair, but by extreme might. We do not wrestle against flesh and blood, but against spiritual evil. Accordingly, the weapons of our warfare are not of this world, nor of the flesh. It has divine power to demolish strongholds. Racism is a
stronghold. With it comes arguments, and lofty opinions. These things
masquerade as resolutions, but they exalt themselves against God’s knowledge.
We must take these thoughts captive and make sure they obey Christ. If not,
they will take us captive and waste the hope of God in us. Let’s fight
according to the power of God in us. Stop bringing inferior weapons to fight
hatred. When others bring the weapons of the world, we bring the weapons of our
God. It is superior. We are not supposed to ignore the lie. We expose and
obliterate it.
BLACK LIVES MATTER
It is the hottest
"social justice" movement, and people are bowing down in droves. It was supposed to be a stance against police brutality. It has become
an identity. Anyone who supports it is a freedom fighter. Anyone who doesn't, is "a part of the problem." Hear this. Life matters. Therefore, black lives like all the rest, have always mattered. Hatred does not alter God's opinion of the lives He created. It cannot
change the truth, but the whole truth is not being told here. It is a cause for alarm.
It's not my intent to convince anyone that black lives don't matter. I am a "black life." Instead I have a fundamental disagreement with the group that has claimed the name, and asserted a premise against which there is little argument.
The group has garnered support and is profiting based on a slogan it does not believe. It says
"black lives matters" but does not act like it. They treat other
black lives as though they do not matter. Black people killed by the police, their
lives matter. Black people killed by each other, not so much. It seems
the real focus of this group is to educate or reeducate the white community,
and authorities. It does not focus on education in the black community. It
ignores black on black murder after murder, after murder, after murder… Not
once have I seen a protest organized by BLM outside an abortion clinic where we
are losing children within our community by the millions. I have never
seen Black Lives Matter show up at anything that didn’t involve the furtherance
of its business model. It would be nice to hear of BLM reading and mentoring
programs. It would be nice to see them doing something other than demanding
something of others. Surely, we can explore, what can we do for ourselves, and
not just, "What can white people do for us?" They have a huge
platform and massive opportunity. It is missed.
We must discuss murder
within the black community. Why are we avoiding this? Every time it comes up,
some want the subject dropped immediately. How many young black men have died
at the hands of other young black men since George Floyd? It has to be
addressed because these things relate. It is not a different subject from
police brutality and murder, it is a part of it. Murders, assaults, any kind of
criminality within the black community, gives the police valid reasons for
their presence there. We increase the chances for these negative interactions
when we give them a multitude of excuses to come into our communities. Perhaps if we
decreased the violence against each other, we can lessen our contact with law
enforcement even if only slightly. I'm not blaming any victim for unlawful
actions by law enforcement.
I know there will be those
who will say that law enforcement will harass black people no matter what we
do. True, but how much more would that be the case if given a reason? Sure, there are thugs behind badges. I think that is true of white and black
cops. We won't be able to do much about those other than take legal action.
Thankfully, we have cameras. We can also work to develop systems that
better eliminate those who feed off of control, and power, by becoming a
police officer. I believe there are good cops and bad cops. I will join and
agree with anyone who wants to weed out the horrible ones, but the good cops
need our support in the midst of this. They are being targeted for wearing a
uniform. Could you imagine, risking your life for low pay and the public you
are protecting every day wants you dead? BLM lost me with the whole killing
cops chant a few years ago. There are black and white officers. Tell me, do you want
"justice" so badly you are willing to any officer regardless of color, or criminality? The
greater question becomes why are we moving in a way that kills anyone? Some
argue that the BLM movement has been hijacked. Then why the silence in it? Why
not simply say, "Our peaceful movement has been over taken by those with
other interests. We condemn the murder of any police officer." I've never
heard it. Silence screams consent.
As BLM condones the war on
cops, those who will be affected most are in the black community. What then?
More and more police officers are leaving the job. Who wants to be assassinated
for their career of trying to wanting to help? The streets are hard enough as it is, as
law enforcement dwindles, these areas will become more and more lawless. What's
the plan to combat that? We cannot work indiscriminately against the police and
expect them to be there when we need them. The reality is we need good
officers. Let's protect them. They protect us. There is no doubt education
within our community regarding police interactions need to take place. Massive
efforts should be made to teach people what actions can be taken if they are
being harassed or stopped unlawfully. It cannot hurt to arm a person with their
right as a citizen, and what is expected of them by their local government.
We must also acknowledge
that we teach people how to treat us. How can I disrespect my kind repeatedly
before the world and then tell the world they matter? How could I demand a
respect for my family, that I don’t give them? This is what is happening in the
black community. We do terrible things to each other with uncomfortable
regularity. Then, we expect people to treat us sacredly. I’m not saying they
shouldn’t. They should, but let’s not pretend that we are not setting a
horrible example of how to treat us, by the way we treat each other. It’s the
classic “do as I say, not as I do."
Further, I take issue with
any organization that is resistant to hearing "all lives matter."
Fight the battle that you want to fight, but how can you be offended by the
push back of people who are exercising the same freedom you are? If a group
wanted to fight for all lives that’s noble, as long as they carry it out. I
long for the day when that is actually the case, we start fighting for all
lives, and no longer have to segregate causes. Again, no need to explain it.
I get the point behind Black Lives Matters, but I do not believe it will bring
positive changes. I think it is dangerous. We have chosen to fight for crumbs
of "black equality," It is the "social justice" hill we will literally
die on, because the cause is dishonest. The weapons less effective, because
it repels not unifies. Just imagine if every cultural group banned together and
started fighting for its right to "matter." That's an excellent way
to begin a civil war.
The greatest movements in
any nation happens when everyone can get behind it. Whether it was the Civil
War or Civil Rights, many people across racial lines were involved. That is why
we are free. That is why we have rights. We needed all involved.
This admission angers many blacks, still it is true. But for the help of other
white people, we’d still be doing a lot worse in this land. We have to
acknowledge good in all people. We need to fight for all people. The betterment
of black people in America, betters all people in America. The same is true of
any other race. Until all lives matter, none will.
The whole thing is also
kind of silly because the goal of fighting for black lives, is to decrease
injustices against blacks and elevate our treatment to the level of all other lives.
So, saying "all lives matter" is restating the mission of Black Lives
Matter. Unless, that’s not the real goal at all and it’s more akin to “some
lives matter more.”
I am dumfounded that we
could be so easily misled. In an effort to fight for a worthy cause, we sprint
after an ill-crafted lie. It is especially alarming when it is followed by
those in the church. Are we that desperate for meaning that we would abandon
the teaching of God to follow a cleverly devised scheme? Unity cannot build on
exclusion, and it is only attained through faith. I believe this is why
Dr. Martin Luther King never reduced his fight to one group of people. He
fought for the betterment of all men, and women. The rights of black people
happened to be the pressing issue of that time, but it was always about more. Poor. Marginalized. All people.
My point is, his was a holy
quest, one for the hearts of all men. It sought to lighten the burdens of the
downtrodden, while calling the hearts of the oppressors to humility. He
recognized that blacks were oppressed by hatred, and whites were oppressed
through it. All lives mattered, and all were impacted. Had he fought merely a social ill, how he fought, who, when and where he fought would not have
mattered. It is the why that guides the fight. Fighting against a social ill
isn’t enough. Social ills are a collective manifestation of the individual
heart. Until you bring unity to the hearts of people nothing changes. This is
the goal of faith. That is why we are to treat others in the way we want to be
treated. If we follow this teaching, we will never need anyone to tell us black
lives or any other lives matter. We might even be kinder to pets.
I think the real problem just
might be that black people don’t realize just how much their lives matter. I
recently heard a very passionate young lady compare being in America to playing
a monopoly game, in which you always lost, and enabled your opponent’s win.
Many people agree with this. It’s lethally false. It might explain the
disparity in our community.
There are clearly those in
the black community who have been winning in America, and for a very long time.
The real question is, why are some winning, and others are not? If the system
was failing us as a whole, I’d agree, but it is not. And despite the outcry
blacks in America have done some remarkable things in the past decades. I’m not
sure where else on planet earth, and what other group would have been able to
advance so fast? All of this was in spite of obstacles thrown in their way. So,
why are some blacks making it, while others are not?
A powerful argument could be
made for education, motivation, inspiration, resilience and drive. I could even
make one for nature. I grew up poor by American standards, but I lived near the
beach. Even when my situation was rough, I could always look around and find
hope in the beauty of nature and nature’s God. I couldn’t imagine growing up in
the inner city of even small-town USA much less, Baltimore, Chicago, Detroit,
Los Angeles. Just thinking about it seems stifling on so many levels. Still, I
think the real reason some black Americans are able to advance, and others haven’t,
has to do with leadership.
Whether in the home or
outside the home, the failures within the black community relates heavily to
not having leaders who love us enough to encourage us forward, or challenge us
with truth. We have “leaders” but not servants. They are humbugs, charlatans.
Many of those “leaders” has seized the opportunity to climb to the top by
exploiting the very community they are supposed to be helping. They were led by
the love of money, not their love for us. Some even have the audacity to call
themselves “Christians.” They are “rip off reverends.” Strong, and wise
direction is urgently needed.
White people cannot really
help us with this. They cannot lead in the black community, because they cannot
lead in our homes. Further, it is not their responsibility nor would we trust
them to. If they cannot lead in our homes how then can they lead in our
neighborhoods? How can we blame them for what goes on in our streets? They
cannot be the face of inspiration for a black man, but if we fail in our homes,
they can be the leaders in justice administration, incarceration, and more.
It’s happening. The number
of single parent households among blacks is highest in the nation by far, and
there is no dispute that single parenting puts kids at greater risk for many
negative outcomes including prison time and limited education. It’s not my
intent to get in to the stats. Not all dads are great dads. Not all moms are
great moms. But one need not be a genius to know that you are twice as likely
to be home by curfew, do your school work, clean your room, and more if you
have double the accountability to do so. Parents play a major role in setting you up
for success. They hold your feet to the fire, teach you to work hard, and
advance you whether you want to or not. My parents made me do so many things I
would not have done without pressure. Some of them are the foundation of my
life. There is NO substitute for parenting, people who love you and push you
to succeed. It’s hard for a school or institution to have that kind of
influence.
In place of parenting we
have programs that are meant to support and empower. The lie of empowerment is
that we can do anything to add power to another human being. Only God can do
that. We can encourage, and provoke people to want better for themselves, but
we cannot go beyond affirming their value, and their ability to do so. To
empower, you have to stir up something in a person that says, "I want more
than the expectation assigned to me." This idea of giving people
everything that they demand to help them is false. It creates adult infants, because
nothing they possess came from themselves, by their own hand. You didn't
empower. You just taught them how to accept the handout, and they will continue
to ask for one. That will become the source of their empowerment, gifts. If
there were such a thing as empowerment, then it would be this: you empower
people when you move in a way that encourages them in their value, and teaches
them to act upon their God-given gifts. That's job of parents. Not government. Not whites, schools or Black Lives Matter. Parents.
BLACK POWER
All men are born free. They
choose to live restrained. I see this in all communities, but definitely among
black Americans. A strong argument can be made that they are the most powerful
group in America now, and have been for a very long time. But the saddest thing
is, they don’t see it. They don’t see where their power in this country lies,
the black vote has the potential to turn the political system on its head every
two, and four years. It is, an should be used as the swingiest vote in America.
We don’t use our power. We don’t seem to care or understand the amount of
influence and wealth we amass for those for whom we vote to give our power by
proxy. Unfortunately, we have been giving it to the same people over and over.
They aren’t even “shucking an jiving” for it anymore. Instead, they are now
telling us what it means to be black. It’s sad, but fair because they have
invented the narrative of what it means to be black. "Vote democrat.
Support abortion. You need welfare. You can’t make it without us. Everyone else
in the political process who is white, is a racist, except us democrats. All
white democrats are completely non-racists."
We bought this garbage. To
the point where we silence any black person who disagrees. The person doesn’t
need to be republican. They can be any other group, but if they are not saying
what the democrats say, they won’t be listened to. It’s very sickening, and not
unlike having a master. If we want change, it’s time to do something different.
A change in us will bring change to us. We certainly, can't keep doing the same
thing and expecting different results.
We have been giving our
power to one group for so long, they no longer respect us or it. I truly doubt
they ever did. They have their strategy. It works. They threw a few black
people some crumbs to seem inclusive, but have not kept their promises to us.
They constantly remind us how disadvantaged we, and our communities are, yet
they have been the ones entrusted with the power of our vote, and caring for
our communities for decades. How could we still be in the same position when it
was their responsibility to fix it? Black lives do not matter to them, only
green does. We cannot keep giving this power to the same people. Let the lives
of those who fought for our right to vote mean something. Give it the dignity
it deserves. Hold these leaders accountable for the promises they do not keep,
and the lies they tell. It’s time to vote something other than democrat. If you
do it just one time, they will realize the black vote is not a guarantee.
Nor can it be manipulated. They have to work for it. They will change tactics.
And it’s the tactics that
are most distressing. For the sake of political gain, this country gets ripped
apart every few years. There is big money in racism, because it secures the
loyalty of a swing voting bloc. Black folks. The media is complicit in this, they
tell us all about the racism that is happening all around us. Don’t get me
wrong. I want to hear about it. I want to join that fight, but I started to get
a little concerned when I realized there were zero stories of white men being
shot by white or black police. Am I to conclude that this never happens? Nowhere
in the United States is a white man shot by a white or black police officer? Or
a black man shot by a black officer? Hmmm. I guess there are no black officers
in America. Just white ones bent on lynching.
Interestingly, there is
also NO black
on white crime in all the land. Black people never harm whites. It is always
the other way around. I cannot remember hearing one incident of discrimination
towards whites. It never happens. Black people are either perfectly
discrimination free, or something more sinister is at play here.
I’ve also watched
breathless white reporters talk about the latest offensive statement by such
and such. They were all just so offended. I was supposed to be outraged and
offended too. They were appealing to that innate ignorance they think we all
have. They have to tell black people when to be offended, because apparently,
we don't know.
The media’s obsession with
race is sick, and hypocritical. Which “reporter” is going to look into why
abortion rates is higher in the black community? That's a real race issue. Who
is going to have the audacity to report on crimes in the black community?
Crickets. Which one will examine democratic policies and the effects on the
black community? I bet they would if they were having a remarkable success. Or
they would do it if republicans were failing as miserably as they are there. We
need to stop being used and letting people tell us what to think and how to act.
They don’t care about us. They don't know us. They never really did. They just
know what we bought into and what has worked for the last 60 years. It’s time
we show them that the black community, is more than eating hot sauce, quoting a
spiritual and a Jay-Z concert. It is also more than voting for one party as
Biden seems to think.
Now, at this point you are
probably thinking, "Why make this political if you claim to be a
Christian?" Simple. In the name of politics an entire group of Americans
have been systemically oppressed by the democrats. No, I do not think republicans are blameless. They allowed the democrats to corner the market on
the black vote through their silence on black issues. The democrats managed to
advance the message that any other group than itself, is racist. Black
Republicans can't even speak. White ones are running scared. They won't even
talk about race for fear. Meanwhile, democrats abused, ignored, and exploited
the black community. They instituted the policies that have killed our children, robbed us of growth, wealth and success. I will not be quiet because this is a
political issue. It is a human issue. And these people owe us an apology for
treating us like a whole lot less. They should be ashamed to ask for our vote
despite failure, after failure, after failure. They should be ashamed to accuse
other whites of being racists despite their record on the issue. They should be
ashamed of pretending they understand blacks despite never addressing or
offering anything other than handouts in the decades they've had our votes.
They have no plan for us other than to keep us enslaved to their ideas. They
have gone after our preachers and into our houses of faith, and perverted the
only compass left among us. Our leaders have prostituted their positions for
their advancement. Therefore, I will not be silent in the face of such brazen
disregard for the soul of our community, and the cruel impacts their agenda has
had on it. They are the ones who owe us an apology. They need to repent for
continuing the evil handed down, and imposed upon our communities for a long
time. Eugenics. Stagnation. The criminal injustice system. Ghetto
confinement via poverty. This is their legacy. They shouldn't be asking for our
vote. They should be asking for our forgiveness. The scriptures teach God loves
justice. Theirs is coming.
God wants more for the
black community. We matter greatly to Him. We are more. We can do, and be more.
We need to return to the only ruler who has ever cared for us. God. His Word
will never lead us wrong. Additionally, black Americans should get very
familiar with the constitution. Despite its reputation, it is for us. I’m not
the only one saying these things. People much smarter than I, are out there.
Listen to Thomas Sowell, Walter Williams, Larry Elder, Candace
Owens. Listen to other leaders like Voddie Baucham and more. Hear them out. You have nothing to lose. It’s unfortunate that
these voices are the ones dismissed. They are the ones that actually care. It’s
hard to hear the truth sometimes, but only the people who love you will dare
tell it to you in the way these people are doing. Resist the urge to think they
are talking down to you. They are not. They are talking up to you because they
believe you can understand. The ones selling you the same lines every election,
but making no difference are the ones talking down to you. They are confident
in your ignorance. That’s irreconcilably disrespectful.
UNITY
The really neat thing about
all of this is, there are so many loving people in America. In the midst of
this mess we must push back against the harmful nonsense, and fight for each
other. I refuse to believe all white people are racist. To do that would be to
deny the strangers at the back of our neighborhood, who unprompted, offered me
the use of their property. I would have to deny one of the friendliest most
caring people I have ever met in my life, an officer who helped me at night in
the rain, the firemen who helped me change a tire, the one who wanted to
help me install a car seat. An older white man from Louisiana who told me the
secret to his gumbo recipe. These were all strangers. This list could go on for
a yard if I included all my friends. Let’s not let evil separate us. That is
the way it will conquer us.
Can this country stand to
improve? Yes. Let’s do it together. Let’s talk to people, not shout at them
and not shut them down. Any movement claiming that it is about equality, and
shutting any one group of people down is lying. It’s about supremacy. We solve
problems through unity and communication. Freedom pursues connections. It doesn't destroy them needlessly.
I would further advise Americans,
black and white to consider that not everything is about you. We've been
engaged in the most self-absorbed discussion in our country. We have so
monopolized the conversation, that Americans of other cultures can't even
speak. "Racism" isn't all about you. Even the vilest of racism is at
the core not about you. Nor is the greatest injustice just about you. It can
affect you, but it is not about you. Evil just made you the excuse, the target,
and regret just made you responsible. But others exist. We must be moved
by love, and consideration for each other not anger, or pity. The ignorance and
guilt connected to those things wants to intimidate, and control us. Never let
that happen. No one gets to define us but God. Anyone of us can be a victim of
terrible things, hatred, rape, robbery, but we cannot allow it to make us its
victim forever. As painful as it is, we must find a way forward. Perhaps that’s
what Dr. King meant when he said, "If you fly then run, if can’t run, then
walk, if you can’t walk, then crawl, but whatever you do, you have to keep
moving forward." Love is the only way forward. Some of what’s
happening in our country is very backwards. Resist it. Reach out to other
people. It's easier to discriminate against whole groups of people when you
don't personally know or love anyone from that group. The more people you know
and love from that group, the harder it gets to disregard their collective
humanity.
We need to learn to trust.
Expecting a white person to be racist because he is white is also racist. I’ve
been guilty of that. My past encounters shaped this few. In fact, I taught it
to my children. I wanted to protect them. Based on my experiences, I taught
them "to learn to appreciate the Klan member in the sheet. At least he’s being
honest. It’s the ones that act like your friends that are dangerous. Their
robes are better hidden." I see now that I was teaching them suspicion.
Essentially, "keep your discernment on a swivel around whites." I’ve
had my own growing to do. We are all broken and far from perfect.
It’s God who makes the
difference. I tend not to trust people. He made it clear to me that He’s not
asking me to trust people. He’s asking me to trust Him, and to do what He says
regarding them. The reality of this freed me. I had so much distrust for
people, I had distrusted God who is faithful. That is the end result whenever
we handle matters this way. We have a choice. Wherever we put up walls to
reject pain, and stave off hurt, we hide it from God, from light. These hidden
areas are the darkness in us. They never bring life. If we are open to the
light, the truth, we begin to see so many instances aren’t even about race.
Some of them are ignorance cast as "racism." I have witnessed things
a black person have done, and shook my head in disbelief. If I can see it is
ridiculous, white people can see too. Ignorance is ignorance race aside. Let's
not apply intent where we are unaware of one. Nor, should we confuse how things
make us feel, with how we should forgive.
SUPER SIMPLE SOLUTIONS
In the interest of healing,
I think we need to get involved in the lives of people who don’t look like us.
That might mean speaking to a neighbor, mentoring, or taking a dance class.
It's surprising the bonds we can form through activity. It might even mean
changing churches. There is no reason why the church should be segregated.
Find a cause in another
community that you can champion. Get behind it, and get to know people as you
do. Many of these things require little effort. They are things that we'd
naturally support.
We don't need to expend our
energy fighting issues that aren't real. Many of the grievances I’m hearing, I
question and suspect that they are backdoors to invite chaos into our society.
They would lay great foundations for other types of government. Black Lives
Matter. Reparations. White Privilege. These are fronts, and excuses for other
systems of control. That might sound harsh, but if you look at the solutions to
these issues, you began to get an idea where advocates of "change" in
these areas want to take this country. Hint: It's not closer to freedom and
democracy.
Let's not join the masses
of those shouting rebellion and revolution. We know the real problem is good
and evil. We also know the real solutions. Fast, pray and tell of God's goodness. We cannot neglect those. Cry out for the repentance, revival and restoration of
man to his maker. The only sure way to end hatred is to introduce others to the love of God.
Talk openly with each
other. Risk the awkwardness and vulnerability. Prepare to be honest in those
conversations. Expect to be hurt by them, challenged by them, and patient in
them. You are going to hear some crazy things. You are going to hear the truth.
Don’t shut it down, even when painful. Truth is the only path forward.
Be courageous. Don't allow
the insanity to shut you down. Speak truth. This is a great country and
it can be greater, but it won't be if we tear it to pieces because it's not
perfect. If you can't be happy in American, and make it here, you won’t be
satisfied anywhere.
Let go. Don't allow the
weight of hate to pull you under. There is joy. Never let go of it. It is our
strength. Believers have the fruit God's Spirit. We are equipped to triumph of
the world, by overcoming evil with good.
Be courteous. The potential
of such simple decency is stunning and disarming. Have the same regard for
others. Don’t merely tolerate people. It shows. Be genuine. When you are in the
public do exactly what I see happening right now. Everyday people are a
little bit kinder. There seems to be a silent conversation, and apologies
passed among strangers in glances. We know this is crazy, and most of us don't
agree.
Black American, calm down,
not everything is about race. White American, wake up, not everything isn’t. As
long as we are alive there will always be someone trying to put us in our place
to establish theirs. The harder we fight for each other, the less we'll have to
fight with each other.
After
all these words, there are till scrolls left unsaid, but it all can be summed up
in this: "Love your neighbor as yourself." Jesus- The only Justice.